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Take The 30-Day Network-Building Challenge

By January 2, 2020February 4th, 2020No Comments
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Networking may not be top on your to-do list this time of year, but to stay top–of-mind it should be. And this is where the Build Your Dream Network 30-day networking challenge comes in.

I’m challenging you to rethink your networking habits and how you work with your network, for the next 30-days.

The idea for the 30-day network-building challenge originated in a conversation and launched in the summer 2019. January, just as the halcyon days of summer, is a perfect time to approach networking differently. In January, many of us are dragging our butts back to our regular routine after the parties and celebrations in December. There may be the pinch of finances after post-holiday splurges or pinch of the waistline after December indulgences. Between the new-found motivation to head to the gym, fatigue from over-extending yourself last month – who even imagines re-engaging in stereotypical networking events this month.

This is where the 30-day network-building challenge comes in.

So don’t worry, I’m not suggesting you sign-up for events, or attend conferences or slap on nametag or organize a dinner.

The challenge is deceptively simple. The challenge is to do ONE thing each day. One thing. As I shared in a recent podcast episode “I’m challenging you to do just one thing each day for 30-days to connect with someone in your network.”

That one thing doesn’t need to be a coffee date or lunch or post-work drink. It doesn’t need to involve attending a meet-up or conference. The one networking thing you do each day could be sending a text or being more focused on one of the myriad interpersonal interactions you have on a day-to-day basis (just decide to be intentional about the interaction). From delivering long-overdue feedback to taking a mentoring call or chairing a regular meeting – these are opportunities to improve your network. A few more ideas:

  • Endorse a friend on LinkedIn
  • Personlize a regret note for an event you cannot or choose not to attend
  • Organize a carpool instead of driving alone
  • Volunteer to lend a hand
  • Send a birthday card (or belated birthday card)
  • Invite a colleague to join you at an event you’re attending
  • Fire off a congratulatory text
  • Recommend a book
  • Comment on a social media post
  • Pick up the phone
  • Wave to your neighbor (assuming you’re on friendly terms)
  • Organize a lunch & learn in your co-working space
  • Send along an article of interest
  • Ask someone how they’re doing – then listen to their answer
  • Finally introduce yourself to the colleague you’ve seen a million times and have never been properly introduced to.
  • Forward info to help their business grow or send along a job lead

Challenge yourself. What’s one thing you can do today to build stronger connections in your network?

Let me know what ideas you put into action. Send me a note at kelly @ and download the 30-Day Networking Challenge worksheet to track your progress!

Need more networking ideas and inspiration?

Build Your Dream Network interviewee Rachel Hofstetter directed me to the #52memories hashtag with her posts. If undertaking one networking act a day is too much (or not enough), what about challenging yourself to once a week commitment?

Then there is this still relevant post I wrote for Forbes – “20 Ways To Build A Strong Business Network – Without Leaving Your Desk“. Take an audit of your digital networking footprint, perhaps with a few adjustments you’ll be quickly connecting to more of the opportunities you’re actively seeking.

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J. Kelly Hoey

J. Kelly Hoey

J. Kelly Hoey is a problem solver who believes that most professional challenges—whether funding, landing a board position or getting a new job—are solved by tapping into networks.Kelly is a popular speaker on networking, community building and investing issues, especially as they relate to women, and has worked with the IEEE, PGA, Bank of America, Apple and countless others. Follow Kelly on Twitter @jkhoey and on Instagram @jkellyhoey and join the #BYDN community at